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How to Handle Wedding Planning Stress

Handling wedding planning stress can be challenging, but there are several strategies that can help you manage it effectively:

1. Start Early and Plan Ahead

  • Timeline: Begin planning as soon as possible. Create a timeline and checklist of tasks to keep track of what needs to be done.

  • Budget: Set a realistic budget early on and stick to it to avoid financial stress.

2. Delegate Tasks

  • Bridal Party: Delegate responsibilities to trusted friends and family members, including your bridal party.

  • Professional Help: Consider hiring a wedding planner if your budget allows. They can take a significant amount of stress off your shoulders.

3. Stay Organized

  • Tools: Use wedding planning apps, spreadsheets, or a dedicated notebook to keep all your information in one place.

  • Checklists: Break tasks into manageable steps and check them off as you go.

4. Communicate Effectively

  • With Partner: Maintain open and honest communication with your partner about your expectations and concerns.

  • With Vendors: Regularly communicate with your vendors to ensure everyone is on the same page.

5. Prioritize Self-Care

  • Take Breaks: Schedule breaks from planning to relax and recharge. Take time for hobbies, exercise, or simply unwinding.

  • Healthy Habits: Maintain a healthy lifestyle with balanced meals, regular exercise, and sufficient sleep.

6. Set Realistic Expectations

  • Flexibility: Understand that not everything will go exactly as planned and be prepared to adapt.

  • Focus on What Matters: Remember the main reason for the wedding – celebrating your love and commitment. Don't get too caught up in minor details.

7. Seek Support

  • Talk it Out: Discuss your feelings and concerns with friends, family, or a counselor.

  • Join Communities: Consider joining wedding planning forums or support groups where you can share experiences and advice.

8. Practice Stress-Relief Techniques

  • Mindfulness: Engage in mindfulness practices such as meditation or yoga to stay calm and centered.

  • Breathing Exercises: Simple breathing exercises can help manage anxiety and stress in the moment.

9. Limit Social Media Exposure

  • Avoid Comparisons: Try not to compare your wedding to others you see on social media, which can create unnecessary pressure.

  • Use for Inspiration: Use social media for inspiration rather than as a benchmark for perfection.

10. Enjoy the Process

  • Celebrate Milestones: Celebrate small victories along the way to keep the planning process enjoyable.

  • Focus on Love: Keep the focus on the joy of getting married to your partner rather than the stress of planning an event.

By incorporating these strategies, you can reduce the stress associated with wedding planning and enjoy the journey to your big day.

How to beat the heat for summer weddings

How to beat the heat for summer weddings

It may be summer or global warming, but heat waves are upon us!! Your guests' comfort is important, from the elderly to the youngest guests you want to make sure people are comfortable. Here are my tips and tricks to beat the heat:

Fun in the Sun

(these few tips are great photo ops)

  • Provide paper Parasols to create shade for your guests

  • Double your ceremony programs to also be paper fans.

  • If you're more ceremony is more casual, bring in some small water pistols

  • Create mini cooling tents with chic seating area: you can rent mini portable AC units from Home Depot and put them in mini pop-up tent

Amenities

  • Offer cold towels; to make them extra special, add some essential oils like lavender or eucalyptus

  • Provide deodorant in the bathrooms [whether it's hot or not, it's appreciated with all the dancing]

  • Misting station - you can also add essential oils to this!

Sweets and Treats

  • Set up a water station. Or jazz things up with a lemonade and iced tea station

  • Pass frozen fruit, such as grapes or watermelon

  • Boozy pops or boozy snow machines are a great way to cool down

  • Hire an ice cream truck or gelato vendor!

Making your guests [AND YOU] comfortable can also be memorable. 

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